Father's Day Salute... Much love to all fathers. Never think that you're not admired for being an active part of our lives. U help build legacies thru the birth of our children. -Kandayia Ali
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Saturday, June 16, 2012
Success vs. Failure: YOU VS. THEM
I’m ready for success…
A true student puts aside everything he thinks he knows and believes to be true in order to find a deeper understanding of himself and the options that others in his current circle have overlooked due to status, religion, class position, current circumstances, lack of, or miseducation or just plain ignorance.
I’m going to cut straight to the bone of the issue. What I dislike most are people who are trying not to fail. When your mind is set on not failing, you’re desperate to prove yourself to others. When your mind is on success, you leave no room for anything else. Success will be the only option and you will always find a solution to any issue that tries to present itself as a problem.
Analyze yourself and determine if you’re success is being blocked by your undying hunger to not be considered a failure in the eyes of the people you currently know. These people are and will always be a reflection of who we either were or who we tried but could never be. A head count of who we currently know has no value. Especially when taking on a new venture down a different road that isn’t a familiar avenue. If it mattered then your life would be different from what it is currently.
REMEMBER:
With successful comes the changing of people, places, and life as YOU KNOW IT- NOT HOW YOU HAD IT- so stop worrying about who you know now. Focus on the move forward only and the new experiences.
To succeed or fail is a FINAL DECISION that we all have to make- BUT BEFORE WE DECIDE WHICH ONE WE REALLY WANT TO DO- WE HAVE TO KNOW WHO WE’RE DOING IT FOR…
Kandayia Ali 2012
A true student puts aside everything he thinks he knows and believes to be true in order to find a deeper understanding of himself and the options that others in his current circle have overlooked due to status, religion, class position, current circumstances, lack of, or miseducation or just plain ignorance.
I’m going to cut straight to the bone of the issue. What I dislike most are people who are trying not to fail. When your mind is set on not failing, you’re desperate to prove yourself to others. When your mind is on success, you leave no room for anything else. Success will be the only option and you will always find a solution to any issue that tries to present itself as a problem.
Analyze yourself and determine if you’re success is being blocked by your undying hunger to not be considered a failure in the eyes of the people you currently know. These people are and will always be a reflection of who we either were or who we tried but could never be. A head count of who we currently know has no value. Especially when taking on a new venture down a different road that isn’t a familiar avenue. If it mattered then your life would be different from what it is currently.
REMEMBER:
With successful comes the changing of people, places, and life as YOU KNOW IT- NOT HOW YOU HAD IT- so stop worrying about who you know now. Focus on the move forward only and the new experiences.
To succeed or fail is a FINAL DECISION that we all have to make- BUT BEFORE WE DECIDE WHICH ONE WE REALLY WANT TO DO- WE HAVE TO KNOW WHO WE’RE DOING IT FOR…
Kandayia Ali 2012
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